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Gender-Neutral Baby Shower: Elegant Ideas in Sage, Taupe & Ivory

Skip pink/blue and plan a chic gender-neutral baby shower. Décor, invites, games, food, outfits, photo ideas, and budgets.

By BabyWelcome TeamUpdated 2025-01-13
Gender-neutral baby shower with sage, taupe, and ivory colors

Overview

A gender-neutral baby shower celebrates the joy of welcoming a new baby without focusing on gender. This elegant approach uses sophisticated neutrals and natural elements to create a timeless, inclusive celebration that works for any family.

Color Palette

Sage

Taupe

Ivory

Soft Gray

Accent: Wood or gold for natural, elegant touches.

Decorations

Gender-neutral decorations with neutral colors and natural elements

Essential Decorations

  • • Fabric drape with neutral banner
  • • Paper fans
  • • Acrylic "Oh Baby" sign
  • • Felt ball garlands
  • • Potted herbs as favors

Invitations

Sample Wording

"Celebrate Baby [Last Name]—A Gender-Neutral Shower. [Date/Time]. Dress in soft neutrals."

Keep language inclusive and focus on celebrating the new baby rather than gender.

Games

Game Ideas

  • • Team "Yay Baby" vs "Can't Wait": Stickers (no gender)
  • • Name Ideas Jar: Gender-neutral suggestions
  • • Wishes for Baby Cards: Inclusive messages
Gender-neutral baby shower games

Food & Desserts

Menu Ideas

  • • Herby finger sandwiches
  • • Lemon bars
  • • Olive-oil cake
  • • Cucumber mocktails
Gender-neutral themed desserts and food

Outfits

Monochrome neutrals with simple jewelry create an elegant, timeless look. Encourage guests to wear soft, neutral tones that complement the sophisticated theme.

Photo Ideas

Photo Opportunities

  • • Herb wall backdrop
  • • Letter board messages
  • • Confetti = paper streamers in ivory
Gender-neutral baby shower photo ideas

Budgets

$50 Budget

  • • Paper fans
  • • Printables
  • • Basic styling

$150 Budget

  • • Acrylic sign
  • • Herb favors
  • • Enhanced styling

$300 Budget

  • • Styled table
  • • Photo corner
  • • Complete experience

Checklist

  • • Neutral banner
  • • Paper fans
  • • Acrylic signage
  • • Felt garlands
  • • Herb favors
  • • Cleanup supplies

Frequently Asked Questions

How can I avoid gendered language in invitations and decorations?
Use inclusive terms like "baby," "parent," and "celebration" instead of gender-specific language. Focus on the joy of welcoming a new family member rather than gender-specific themes.
What should I say about gifts on gender-neutral invitations?
Include registry information and mention "books or diapers welcome, optional" to be inclusive. Avoid specifying gender-specific items and focus on practical needs.
How can I make decorations work for any gender?
Use neutral colors like sage, taupe, and ivory. Focus on natural elements, geometric patterns, and abstract designs rather than gender-specific themes or colors.

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